Wednesday, October 25, 2006

A few moments of life

Its strange sometimes when we reflect on our past... we always feel why did this happened to me and not to others... what wrong did I do that I have to go through the sufferings which others don't have to face....We are very sticky about such situation...We always try to build up things the way we want to perceive and feel that we are the ones who suffered the most....

I too do the same to be honest...I too feel my sufferings had been the most...We glorify it...we make it larger than life...and try to say that we emerged victorious even after we went through those hardships...

Well the important thing to note here is those difficult days actually makes a man out of a boy....you learn...you gain confidence...you emerge as the best...till you don't see the bad...you never appreciate the beautiful...

It's good to remember one's past....the place we came from...our roots...but again being sticky to the sufferings of the past does nothing but pulls you down...

I have always believed in moving ahead in life... my quest is to live life every moment...

Life is too short to crib about things which is now history.... get over it... smile at yourself... and Move on....

There is a beautiful song by the "The Corrs" - "Everybody Hurts" - which says...hold on even when everybody hurts....because you hold on to see the best...when the worst is gone...

So hold on............ Life is beautiful.......May be somebody is waiting for you...who will give you all the warmth and comfort you need..... :-)....

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3 Comments:

At 7:20 PM, Blogger ~ SJ ~ said...

nice one dude...
very positive way of looking at things.

but tell me or think through...
you say... lets not cling to the past... rightly so...
but there is something you really want and believe in... and getting that... is difficult or extremely difficult... do you not hang on... fight for it rather than just move ahead and let it go?

 
At 7:34 PM, Blogger Rex said...

Well...thts where u have to take a decision in life....and it's difficult ..veyr difficult...and thats why it found a place on my blog :-)

What I am saying is that you should not give utmost importance to the sufferings you have been through...get the learnings move ahead..and try to get other things in life...

You will always get what you deserve ... :-)

 
At 10:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

well everyone says so that difficult times make u stronger..yes to some extent..but difficulties shudn't continue for too long..there should be light at the end of the dark tunnel..a dark tunnel that stretches too long with no end in sight only leads to fatigue and loss of spirit..too many difficulties in life are not a good thing..it is not good for health..life becomes a real burden..u lose ur optimism..ur cheerfulness

do you think a person who has never seen difficulties would get scared if he was confronted with a difficulty..no..he would deal with it with most optimism..whereas a person who has seen one difficulty after another wud say-oh my god!not again..i am too tired

 

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